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Jul 30, 2021 · Are you married but in love with someone else? Find out what to do in this type of tricky situation with tips and advice from a love and relationship coach!
- Catherine Winter
- Realization That You’re Interested In This Person As More Than A Friend. This often strikes out of nowhere and leaves you with your jaw hanging somewhere around Antarctica.
- Preoccupation. The person you’re falling for is constantly in your thoughts. You overfill your coffee cup because you’re thinking about them, your eyes glaze over in class or during a meeting at work because you’re trying to determine your next step.
- Idolization. Everything they do is just so cute, isn’t it? Yeaaaah. It is. It REALLY is. Also known as “the smittening,” this stage turns you into a quibbling mess of heartsick jelly that’s just oozing with delight about everything your partner does.
- Awkwardness And Insecurity. This is where you’re getting seriously involved with the person, but you’re still uncertain about exactly how they feel about you because you’re too nervous to discuss it, so you’re awkward and flustered and you worry about what you say (BREATHE) and think that they probably believe you’re a complete idiot and did they notice that you forgot your deodorant today omg you better not hug them too closely (BREATHE) but if you don’t hug them then they might think you don’t really like them as much as you do but you don’t want them to think you smell and and and (PANICKED BREATHING)…
- Don’t panic. Communicate! Everyone can fall in love with another person. That’s human. And just because it happens, it doesn’t mean that it’s the end of your relationship.
- Ask yourself: Do you feel your partner’s genuine commitment? This was one of the most important indicators for me that a break-up might be the healthiest solution.
- Question your relationship. When your partner falls in love with another person, it’s not only about him, but especially about you to ask if you still feel heard, seen and respected by him/her.
- Set boundaries! I didn’t want him to lose contact with her just because of me. I wanted him to figure things out with her and to decide actively for our relationship.
- Lachlan Brown
- Give yourself and your relationship time. I’m guessing that your head might be spinning with so many thoughts right now. Take a big breath. If this is fairly recent news for you, then you’re still likely to be in shock.
- Talk to him about his feelings and tell him yours. Communication is key in any relationship. But realistically it also very easily breaks down. Now is the time to lay all your cards on the table and encourage some totally honest talks between you and your husband.
- Why does he want to stay? If your husband is in love with another woman but wants to stay with you, then the big question is, why? What is his motivation for wanting to stay in the marriage and how does that make you feel?
- Delve deeper into the root causes. Things don’t “just happen”. There are always reasons, and those reasons are rarely simple. When you are frantically wondering what to do if your husband has feelings for someone else, a good place to start is trying to figure out the flaws within your own relationship with him.
What do you do when you find out that your spouse is in love with someone else? Do you call it quits? Leave? Do you try to get them to fall back in love with you? I know it hurts like crazy. It’s a shock to your system, and there’s probably a ton of stuff running through your head right now.
May 16, 2010 · We're talking about being in love or falling in love with another person, which I think most people would consider as emotional infidelity (or, at least, is a good sign of it).
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Jun 14, 2023 · Is the person you love in love with someone else? Do you struggle to see them happy with this other person? Here's how to cope and move on.
