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Jun 22, 2021 · Smothered is back for season 3 and the mums and daughters are closer than ever, with Karla and daughter Rykia watching each other's sex tapes.
- Hit The Pause Button
- Don’T Freak Out
- Casually Ask Her What She’S Doing
- Talk About The Good Stuff
- Explain Some Logistics
- Be An Opportunist
- Celebrate
t Don’t do anything just yet. Check in with yourself and any parenting partner. What are your values about masturbation? You don’t want to deliberately (or, for that matter, inadvertently) pass along your own issues to your daughter. Get hold of your feelings first and then think about what it is you really want your child to know.
t I repeat, don’t freak out. Masturbation is a common childhood behavior regardless of ones biological sex. While the images that come to mind are of little boys with their hands down their pants, that’s just a generalization. Girls do it, too. If you freak out, you’re sending a message to your daughter that there is something shameful about her bo...
t Don’t do this in an accusatory way. Say: “Hi, what are you doing?” Find out what she’s really thinking. She may be doing it for pleasure or maybe she has an itch. That sounds silly, I know, but there is a difference. tWant more tips on talking to your teen about sex? Check out Dr. Levkoff’s new book>>
t “It’s totally normal to want to explore your body. It’s a really cool place.” Acknowledge that you know that what she is doing feels good. Tell her that her body is capable of amazing things, including pleasure.
t Masturbation is probably not the talent you want your child to show off in front of your guests, so you should talk about location. Try this: “I know that feels good, but it’s something that’s just for you, so if you want to do it, why don’t you go to your room where you can have some privacy?”
t The masturbation conversation gives us an opportunity to talk about how our bodies are just for us. Consider it the “good touch, bad touch” conversation without all of the negativity. We can frame it positively: “Your body and your vulva(yes, be specific) are just for you. No one can ever touch you without your permission.”
t I don’t mean throw a party, but rather, you should feel good that your daughter will never have to rely on a partner to “turn her” into a sexual being. She won’t settle for less than stellar experiences or partners because she knows what her own body is capable of. t Click here to read more from Logan Levkoff.
- Dismissive. “My mother ignored me,” Gwen, 47, confides. “If I did something that I thought would make her proud, she would either dismiss it as insignificant or undercut it in some other way.
- Controlling. In many ways, this is another form of the dismissive interaction although it presents very differently; the key link is that the controlling mother doesn’t acknowledge her daughter any more than the dismissive one does.
- Unavailable. Emotionally unavailable mothers, those who actively withdraw at a daughter’s approach or who withhold love from one child while granting it to another, inflict a different kind of damage.
- Enmeshed. While the first two types of behaviors describe mothers who distance themselves from their children, enmeshment is the opposite: these mothers do not acknowledge any kind of boundary between them, their definition of self, and their children.
Supporting your child if they've been sharing nudes. If your child's been sending, sharing or receiving sexual messages, photos or videos, you may feel upset, angry or confused. Your children may also feel anxious talking about what's happened, but there are ways you can reassure them.
May 26, 2021 · Alex Williamson. British subscription site OnlyFans is failing to prevent underage users from selling and appearing in explicit videos, a BBC investigation has found. Under-18s have used fake...
Sexting is when people share a sexual message and/or a naked or semi-naked image, video or text message with another person. Children and young people may also talk about sharing 'nudes', 'pics' or 'dick pics'. Children and young people may consent to sending a nude image of themselves.
Sep 19, 2018 · I have been extremely worried about my 17-year-old high school senior daughter. Her boyfriend (John) of 6 months went away to college a few weeks ago and her worst fear came true. He broke up...
